This Man Sounds Dangerous
i think that u should plain every step of this and make sure u have some type of outside support
Make sure you have more than one set plan for you and your son if you plan on divorcing this man. And try counseling before you set your mind in one sure direction. Who knows, you may find out something in counseling that you thought would never come up. If you could get through those issues then maybe you two could get your marriage back on track. But if not, then again, just make sure you have a good plan for you and your son. Being a single mother, even with his father in and out of the home or visitations, can still become very hard on you as a single mom.
Oh, wouldn't it be lovely if the man would follow the counsel of the bible and be wonderful to this woman as Y'shua (Jesus) would treat her with respect and honor (read the book and see how he treated every woman and child he came into contact with) but you cannot change your husband, you cannot make him be a person who does what should be done. Toy-Toy is trying to lay some guilt trip on you (an element of mental and emotional abuse) without realizing that the godly ideal (what should be) just isn't matching with the facts on the ground. There are realistic ideals and unrealistic ideals. There are periods of time to be patient and there are times when it's time to go. If you read the first two chapters of Proverbs, you'll find that even GOD knows when to quit! I do think it is important for you to communicate your feelings to your husband, but as all of the wise and discerning ones here have advised, you need to do it without your son's presence and you need to prepare for safety of yourself, your son, your must-have possessions (important documents, etc.). Be bold but be smart. Y'shua said "Be cunning as foxes and harmless as doves." It doesn't sound like you're out to hurt or harm your husband in any way - you're just wanting to prevent yourself and your son from any harm or hurt. There is absolutely nothing wrong with protecting your and your son's interests. You can be cunning, and still be in good sight of God. He knows your motives. I wish you the best as I pray for myself and my son also to be all right.
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