Are you a picky dater?

Falling in love and dating has never made much sense. In fact, if it did, there would be hundreds of authors, therapists and matchmaking businesses out of work.



The picky dater is big business and it’s my personal belief that those who are profiting from those picksters are playing up that whole “soulmate” theory as much as possible.



From compatibility matches to practically being able to build your own Weird Science kind of model - being picky is a growing issue.

Certainly I can understand someone being picky when it comes to the ‘big’ issues - but how many people do you know who have actually stopped dating someone because they had the wrong color of eyes or because they may have been an inch or two too short?

Centuries from now, scientists may point to this as the moment in time when the pickiness gene became dominant. In the end, it will come down to one really old, lonely guy and his list.

“She must have blue eyes. She should like animals, but not in a weird way. No thin lips. No lawyers,” he’ll be writing, just before he keels over and the human race comes to an end.

Have you ever heard of a guy not calling a girl again because he just couldn’t stand the thought of dating a girl who like MAYONNAISE?  It’s happened!

What might be one of the most shallow or picky reasons you’ve ever stopped dating someone?  How about we take it up a notch and make this an even more fun challenge - Let’s see how many people can actually provide an answer in as little as 10 words.

Two Boyfriends Are Better Than One

Hmmm.

I guess for women who take on this kind of thinking when it comes to relationships are not-so-into monogamy, eh? ‘Does make you think, though. Why is having two boyfriends better than one? Of course, it’s a rip-off of the saying, “Two heads are better than one” and takes on a similar if not the exact, same concept. But they were refering to idea generation during meetings, plannings, or brainstorming sessions.

Is it because each guy provides something that the other can’t? Is it to reinforce the girl’s attractiveness? Or it’s simply because the girl knows she can have two or more, even?
Perhaps there’s something about getting a taste of different types of “relationships” since the girl will be getting “inputs” from two different guys. Like in meetings, if ideas would come from just one person, the outcome may turn out to be not as exciting as getting ideas from two or more “heads”, to accomplish a goal.

For the girl, the idea of having just one boyfriend seems unsatisfying — quite similar to multi-dating or men having more than one girlfriend. I guess, this kind of thing is not limited to men, huh?

Now, it also peaked my curiosity when it comes to the guy’s side, are there guys who agrees to this kind of a set up? If yes, I’d like to know why. [I want to put an exclamation point at the end of that statement but decided not to — egad.]

Discuss.

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