No relationship is perfect

All relationships have their ups and downs. As the years go by you always need to work on your relationships. No one ever said it would be easy but if you can just flow with it your relationships have a better chance of going the distance. I’m not just referring to love relationships but all of your relationships. Some of us change while others don’t. We can not always be on the same page at the same time.
As we age our likes and dislikes seem to increase little by little. Sometimes we just drift apart without even a word. I can remember when my best friend of 16 years just stopped communicating with me. I made every effort to try and find out what happened but was not successful. Then 10 years later I found out her sister was murdered in Mexico and there was no way I could not send a note or attend the service. I was so nervous to see her but knew this was the right thing. When she was leaving the church our eyes met and and I knew I did the right thing. When she walked into the reception we just hugged and cried together. Nothing needed to be said. We have been best friends since this day and we are both so happy to have each other back in our lives.
When it comes to love relationships you need to always do the work to keep it fresh. It is like a garden that needs to be cared for. You know those couples who seem perfect well it isn’t always the case. I can remember as a child everyone thought my parents were the greatest. But, of course they weren’t around to see the truth. I learned very important lessons growing up in a disfunctional house. But, I was determined not to be like my parents. I can say that when I see my behavior that mirrors my mother I just get so pissed off at myself.
Oh course my parents did the best they could. As I got older I started to understand that they had their own demons and struggles and it must have been very hard. But, what they didn’t do was work on their relationship to make it grow. My dad died of cancer about 15 years ago so I don’t know what would have happened to their marriage. If I knew then what I know now I would have worked alot harder to have a better relationship with my dad.
In the end none of us are perfect and we can not expect perfection from anyone. We need to love and accept each other for who we are. There are some of us that continue to work on our own personal development and grow while others do nothing to improve their lives. This either works for you or it doesn’t. Just be the best you can and stay true to your dreams.

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