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I dont think any of us could really say why this guy is flirting and whether he has a rocky marriage or not. There could be reasons for him contacting you and flirting with you that are beyond our grasp (oh, the way the mind works…..lol). However, even if he is just doing it “for fun” I think you should examine whether his behaviour is offensive or not. If he is funny and he is just joking and you have no inclination to get involved in his marrital life then whatever his reasons they should not really matter. Its not like you are trying to initiate a relationship with him right (right??)
However, to play the devils advocate here, “using” is a pretty strong word and so I get the feeling that at some level you are not very happy with the situation as it is. Also, although some people might disagree with me, flirting is flirting and since he is married and is doing it in secret (I dont think his wife is around when he emails you) then I would be very careful. Especially if you live in the same area….One day the wife might find out, and you might be greeted with a not so polite email from her.
Either way, I hope that you are not reciprocating. If he’s married, and his wife isn’t a best friend (in the good, open way) of yours, just delete. As my very smart mother would say, why are you even engaging?
I’ll assume that you aren’t and that you’ve got your head on straight. Then my next comment would be that he is out of bounds here. I agree with Jeff…..unless he is saying, “Wife! Wait until you see the email exchange we had today,” he’s got issues. And they’re not yours to solve. Friend Sassy’s notion of Mr. Married doing a “Wife! Wait until you see the email..” is a most entracing [seductive, even] BEAUTY. There’s a way to scratch that itch!
Soooo, Dear Teresa, on that theme: Do something…. like asking Mr.M to convert 2birds on a wire to A *3-some* as in let’s add Winifred Wife on our “cc”. Exit never-healthy down lows. Unless You want to keep Gigs as-are, rather than take a chance on Love [of Your holiness, at least!]. My guess is he’s looking for a thrill. This happened to my sister. She tried to keep it cool and friendly but he kept getting more intense until he flat out propositioned her. My sister, being who she is, sent that email to his wife.
The there’s anything in those emails you wouldn’t want his wife to read, cut and run! You don’t want to be the kind of woman who does that, trust me. Update on the married guy
I wanted to thank all of you for your advice, some I agree with some I dont, for there are other things to also consider that I didnt put in my first mail.
He says he still does have feelings for me, but a road best not to go down at this point intime because he is married, second,I have told him that as long as he is married nothing will happen sexually between us, He wants to stay friends rather than loose me, but the emails keep coming, the flirting, the thoughts, the good morning emails….Help !!!! I dont want to loose him as a friend but are guys that blind when you lay it all out I told him how I feel about him, He still continues to flirt, GUYS help ???
What does this meen in a GUYS head ?????
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