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Interesting question from LoveLife today — is there such a thing as an “emotionally unavailable” man? I know we hear about it all the time, but is there such a beast? Hi Jeff, Congrats on your book progress! Here’s is a short and sweet inquiry, inspired by a visit to a very popular website based in the UK dealing with emotionally unavailable men: Do you think there is really such a thing as an “emotionally unavailable” man? Isn’t that really just a term developed in our post-feminist culture where women want men to be like women–when that is biologically impossible? Shouldn’t women just let go of the notion of a man who is “in touch with his feelings,” and who is emotionally expressive (verbally, in particular)? I know that all men are different at the individual level, but this is a question about manhood in general. Lovelife Dear Lovelife, Such a great one! I’ve thought about this quite a bit. And the answer is a little yes and a little no… YOU KEEP SAYIN’ THAT W...

This is one of the first areas misunderstanding about men that I ever heard from women. What if he fantasizes about other women? Is it normal? Sadly, the answer is “yes” and it’s probably a little bit worse than you think. But it’s also much, much better. Let me see if I can ’splain this one. Tina writes: if your partner has “fantasies” of other women (celebrity, past girlfriends, women in passing, magazines, etc…) while making love to “the” woman he loves so very much…..is this “normal” male behavior, or is society teaching us women that we are to accept this, or our we insecure, or ????? Should we feel like our partner is being unfaithful ? I have searched the web and have not found an answer that seems to inform in a direct manner. Perhaps you can give some helpful insite and advise Dear Tina, You have stumbled across one of those  areas in which, from what I can tell, men and women behave ENTIRELY differently. I’m not sure why we do. There could be some bio...

Here’s How to Tell The Scenario You come home form work and he first thing you do is check your mail. You want to know if you have gotten a message form the online dating site you joined a while back. It’s all you seem to think abut lately, in fact. From the minute you get up ion the morning until you close your eyes for the night, online dating seems to be the only thing that is on your mind. even more so than eating and sleeping, sometimes. So what are you supposed to do about it? And how do you get out of the cycle? Read on for some ways to tell if you are going over board-and what to do about it. The Perpetual Dater Do you find that even though you have a boyfriend/girlfriend that you are still checking your inbox for that next message that “Someone has a crush on you!” or “You have an admirer?” If so, you may be addicted to online dating. Do you make dates with people only to cancel them in favor of a date online with someone? This is another sign th...

I am probably going to get killed for writing this. This are some very powerful words I’ve got here. This is a seven part series on the most unknown secrets of women. And they are not just any secrets, either. They are the secrets about women that most of us women don’t want any man to ever know about. So why am I posting them? Because I am loyal to my readers as my readers are loyal to me. It’s that simple. Respect for the people I say. And I wouldn’t have it any other way. So read on, follow the advice given here and go on to a successful life in dating. That is of course until you find the right one… If you like Indian women, you might also like to visit the following pages ...  Chennai (ex Madras)   Coimbatore   Navi Mumbai   Kozhikode (ex Calicut)   Durgapur   Visakhapatnam   New Delhi   Noida   Lucknow   Nagpur   Pune   Aurangabad   Madurai   Chandigarh   Bhubaneswar   Kanpur   Delhi ...

It’s Christmas and the Presents are Already Open, So Now What? Tips to Keep That Romantic Christmas Spirit Alive and Well First Things First Another wonderful year has passed, and yet we still live on. Whether it is through new traditions, or old, we here at Thoughts On Dating expect to be back year after year to bring you the best tips, secrets and advice we can muster. And today will be no different! So again, Have a happy and safe Christmas Holiday, and may all your Romantic Dreams Come True! Romantic Activities to Keep You Busy Never Too Early to Un-Decorate WARNING:  This is an X-Rated Romantic idea, so if you have kids, it would be best to wait until you know they are fast asleep, or going to be out of the house for quite possible a very long time. Well, considering it is Christmas, and you have most likely already decorated the tree, you might want to try to un-decorate it. It is never too early to get the task out of the way, unless you know you are g...

Tips & Secrets-It’s Not as Hard as You Think! Secrets to a Great Profile A Sense of Who You Are What many people do not realize is that your  online dating  profile is the first and the only thing people look at, besides your picture, when looking for someone to date online. The profile is the most important thing. And what you put in it is even more important. There are things that should be in a profile and things you should keep out at all costs. An online dating profile will give people a sense of the type of person you are, right from the get go, and before you take action to meet someone you can see what that person is going to be like. For example, from your profile, someone will be able to tell what profession you are in, what you look like, provided you give honest information and a real picture of yourself, and what your hobbies and interests may be. When you are looking for someone online, you have two choices. You can either look...