PUA Daygame For Guys Who Want To Be Normal
Learn how to describe meeting women in ways that help you engage beautiful women and the world in more healthy, normal, natural and productive ways than calling by PUA "daygame" lingo.
We’re big
fans of meeting women as we’re out and about doing our daily business, or as
some people like to call it “daygame” – approaching girls on the street, in cafes,
around bus / train hubs, in the mall, in bookstores and other similar venues.
The
problem is that if guys indulge in weird “Game” / Pick Up Artist lingo by
calling this “daygame,”
it necessarily prevents them from fully understanding situations so that they
can take the most resourceful, efficient and effective actions possible to reach
their goals.
Meeting
and interacting with women is something that guys have been doing for at least
the last 100 years (maybe even longer!). Why not describe meeting women in ways
that help you
engage beautiful women and the world in more healthy, normal, natural and
productive ways than “daygame.”
Here
are 3 replacement frames for meeting women during the day that we’ve found much
more liberating than “daygame”
(and all of the unnoticed limiting beliefs built-in to the term).
PUA “DayGame” For Guys Who Want
To Be Normal: Welcome To (Your Name)-Ville
Welcome to John Robie-ville,
where everyone is my friend.
Population: All.
Open the door. Step outside. I
have arrived.
Since I know everyone here, and
everyone here is friendly, I can simply smile, wave, and say “Hello.” Why not?
I mean, it’s only a small town of a few million people!
I’ve
just step into the biggest, best club in the whole world, and the world is my
oyster!
Some random guy: “But, I said
‘Hi’ to a girl, and she blew me out! She was totally rude! Everyone was staring
at me! I felt terrible!”
Actually, when you said ‘Hi’ to
her, she didn’t actually hear you. On top of that, she’s got her own issues
going on in life right now that she’s sorting out. No worries. You can still
say “Hi,” to her the next time she rolls around.
Besides, no one was staring. By
and large, people are totally ignorant or indifferent to other people out and
about. Everyone’s too worried about themselves to step outside their heads for
a second to make random judgments on strangers they’ve never seen before and
will never see again.
This
is your town.
Other people are strange for not saying “hi” back.
PUA “DayGame” For Guys Who Want
To Be Normal: The Daily 30
Another replacement for daygame
is what we like to call The Daily 30. This involves making a commitment to get
up, get out and to approach at least 30 women every single day. While this is
more easily done in large metropolitan areas with lots of pedestrian traffic
that includes attractive women, the same principle of taking daily, massive
action is effective no matter where you’re located.
By
taking massive daily action, rather than trying to change yourself, you are changed by the very process of
doing.
Rather
than thinking “How can I improve my ‘daygame‘ to get more girls?” doing
The Daily 30 consistently gets you thinking “Now that I have the whole girl /
dating issue is under control by taking massive daily action, what else can I
do with my life to become more Amazing?”
Even in small towns, you can make
a commitment to get up, get out and talk to a certain amount of new women every
single day – the more the better. You can take massive action on whatever goal
you have – be it with meeting more women or any other endeavor that requires
large scale effort over a long time period.
Day Game? Night Game? How About
“Reality?”
Rather
than entertaining the idea of “DayGame” vs. “Night Game,” we simply like to look at
the situation as “Reality”
vs. “nightlife fantasy world.”
Reality is simply how things are.
It is the real world. Women walk around downtown on a daily basis. When we
approach them, some stop to talk to us, some don’t and we go about our
business. It’s just what we do, and it doesn’t stand in opposition to the
fantasy land amusement park bubble that’s also called night game / nightlife.
Night game is a niche, and the population of hot women you can find there in
almost any city will always be a fraction of a percentage of bubble in reality.
In
reality, people act like normal human beings. Rude is rude. Friendly is
friendly. Pouring a drink on someone is behavior fitting of elementary school
kids in reality.
In
reality, you have the chance to meet people as they really are. There is no
shield up. If she likes you and is interested when you approach (assuming
you’re doing it using Identification) she will
talk to you. Everything is simple and straightforward.
For
guys who are well-off and want to meet a high value woman who isn’t after his
money, then reality has
a huge advantage over “night game.” At the club, we’ve found it very common for
women to go on dates or sleep with guys in order to get to his money or
connections (guys inflating the perception of their money or contacts in order
to get laid by women who want money or contacts is sometimes called “social
circle game” by PUA’s).
In reality, we have
found it exponentially easier to build relationships with very high quality
women where she is chasing you using her money in order to get dates and sex
from you (this is simply a minor benefit that myself and the other guys here
experience).
Welcome
to Reality. Also known
as (your name)-ville.
Where doing The Daily 30 is
as simple as stepping outside.
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