What to Do When Asking a Girl for Her Number and She Makes a Fake Excuse
Today as I went about
my business downtown, I talked to some pretty ladies on the street and asked
them for their numbers. I saw one pretty girl walking slowly, playing with her
smart phone. I caught up with her, greeted her and, although she stopped to
talk, the interaction seemed a bit lukewarm.
At some point, I told
her to tell me her number. While holding her phone in her hand she said,
“Sorry, I forgot my phone today.” I laughed, told her “I hope you have a nice
day,” and immediately went to go talk to the next hot woman I saw.
Why didn’t I point to
the phone in her hand, tell her verbally “No you didn’t, you’re holding your
phone” or otherwise call her on the obvious, hilarious excuse she pulled on me?
Because
I know that her offering an excuse, even a transparently BS one, is a polite
way of her telling me “I’m not interested enough in you to want to move this
forward.” And as we teach our guys,
when you learn to accept ‘No’ as an answer without taking it personally, you’ll
become more attractive to much more beautiful women (and you can stop worrying
about all those blows to the ego from ‘unsuccessfully’ getting her number). If
she’s not interested, we simply let her go on her way while we take off on our
mission to find the next incredibly hot woman who’s really into us and has a
great Attitude.
When we find girls who
are interested in us and ask them for their numbers, we’re usually get
something closer to this:
“Definitely! Here you
go!”
Or this:
“Really? Wow thank you
so much! I’d love to give you my number!”
Or even this:
“Oh! Yes! Here’s my
cell number! And my home number! And my work number! And… Oh, also here’s my
Facebook info, my address, my resume and, oh yeah, also a photo of me. Call me!
Please!”
On the other hand, if
we get any of these excuses when asking for the number…
·
“I
don’t have my phone”
·
“I
just met you”
·
“I
don’t know you”
·
“I
don’t give my number to strangers”
·
“Ummmmmmmmmmmmm…”
·
“I’m
in a hurry”
·
“I
don’t have a phone”
…Then we know to
simply smile, wish her a nice day and quickly move on to the next beautiful
woman we see. The fact of the matter is, if she were interested in us and she
is a normal girl with a healthy self-esteem then she would have gladly given
her number. No use investing in a losing hand when we can just play the odds
that we know will lead to the highest quality women and the most enjoyable
dating life.
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