Why Doesn’t Advice On How To Pick Up Girls Ask THESE Questions?

Here is some advice that the "how to pick up girls gurus" have avoided. When you get all of this down tight, YOU become the exception in beautiful women's lives.

Why Doesn’t Advice On How To Pick Up Girls Ask THESE Questions?

I had an interesting thought recently. It was a thought that really highlights a huge, paradigm-shifting difference between typical “how to pick up girls” advice and everything you’re learning about here at DateMasters.

This thought also reminded me how truly strange and foreign our way of thinking is for guys who are stuck chasing and persuading girls to like them.

This then reminded me of how truly remarkable guys, like you (hopefully), are who are using the training here.

And, funny enough, the thought all started when I came across some more bunk “how to pick up girls” advice out on the web.

Why Doesn’t Advice On How To Pick Up Girls Ask THESE Questions?

So, what was the thought?

Almost all of the typical dating advice questions, PUA problems and dating advice for men are the exact same issues that hot women are trying to solve in order to get US (and you when you get it all down tight).

And what does that mean for you?

When you get all of this down tight, beautiful women will be trying just as hard to get you as other guys are trying to get them.

YOU become the exception in beautiful women’s lives.

(A girl I’ve been dating for a couple years said this to me recently, “It’s funny because guys have always been the ones chasing me my whole life.Even now guys constantly approach me and I just ignore them completely. But with you, it’s been the total opposite. Maybe that’s why I fell for you, because I’m always the one chasing you.”)

Here’s an example of a typical dating advice for men product pitch that highlights my point:

“Think about it. If you don’t know the right things to say when you approach a girl, you’re never going to get a chance to take her on a date… sleep with
her… make her your girlfriend… or anything else…”

Sounds pretty typical right?

Now I want to give you some insight into the minds of the women I date (and many who have been disqualified as part of our patent-pending process of Identification).

The following is how we train guys to approach women and dating (changes in bold):

“Think about it. If she doesn’t know the right things to say to you when you approach a girl, she’s never going to get a chance to get invited on a date… sleep with you… make you her boyfriend … or anything else…”

Do you notice the differences?

In the first one, the guy is trying to catch the woman. In the second, the woman is trying to catch the guy (YOU!).

I realize that for many guys reading this, your reality might be closer to the guy chasing the girl for the date, rather than the girl chasing you for the date.

That’s okay.

In fact, it great!

Because the goal is to find girls who you really like and want to chase you for dates and more! This is the ideal. Nobody expects “women chasing you” to be your reality… yet!

If you want to change your results, change your actions. If you want to change your actions, change your thinking. There’s no reason to cling to old ways of thinking about “how to pick up girls” simply because it is closer to your current experience (isn’t that exactly what you want to improve?). Change your thinking and start moving towards the goal – towards the ideal.

Now, all things being equal – let’s assume girls of equal hotness, attitude, and accomplishment – doesn’t the second quote sound a whole lot more easy and fun? Wouldn’t you much rather have her chasing you rather than you chasing her?

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Why Doesn’t Advice On How To Pick Up Girls Ask THESE Questions?

What questions can you ask that will help you start moving closer and closer to the point where beautiful women are chasing you? Start by taking any question from the old paradigm of chasing girls, and change it to position yourself as the Challenge.

Old question: How do I get girls?

DateMasters question: How to I become the guy that girls wants to get?

Old question: How do I get a hot girl who’s a challenge?

DateMasters question: How do I become the guy who’s a Challenge for hot girls to catch and keep?

Old question: How do I attract a beautiful woman?

DateMasters question: How to I become the guy that beautiful women want to attract?

Old question: How do I sleep with a beautiful woman?

DateMasters question: How do I become the guy that beautiful women want to sleep with?

Old question: How to I get a hot girl to talk to me when I approach?

DateMasters question: How do I become the guy who hot girls want to talk to when he approaches?

Old question: How to I keep a really special woman really into me?

DateMasters question: How to I become the guy who really special women want to keep really into them?

Old question: How do I convince a beautiful, high value woman to like me?

DateMasters question: How to I become the man that beautiful, high value women try to convince to like them?

Why Doesn’t Advice On How To Pick Up Girls Ask THESE Questions?

Guys, I’m gonna tell you straight-up: When you can master the challenge of becoming the Amazing Man that knows how to meet, attract and enjoy relationships with women of exceptional beauty and accomplishment, all of the little challenges (like the ones listed above) become wholly irrelevant.

We’ll be posting another article soon about the idea of Micro-Challenge vs. Macro-Challenge, which will go into greater detail about how to solve the “hot women are challenges” problem by focusing on large scale, holistic challenges.

For now, start making some changes in your life that will lead you in the directions you want to go. The first step is, as always, Meet More Women. Go for it.