How To Get Into ‘State’
Are you wondering how
to get into the right mental ‘state’ to be good with women?
Wake up.
That’s all there is to
it.
So
far, according to all of our lived experience, in addition to all the research
and interviews we’ve done over the years, no one has ever approached a
girl while sleeping. Therefore, ‘state’ is absolutely essential
to getting up, getting out and going to talk to women every single day – we
must be in an ‘awake’ state. That means if we’re tired and/or sleepy, that’s
fine as long as we’re awake.
It’s okay if we’re too
cold. Or too hot. Or too itchy. Or too dry. Or our eyes hurt because we put in
a contact lenses weird in the morning. Or we have a cold, and drippy, runny
nose.
You Can Have Success With Beautiful
Women Regardless of Your ‘State’
That means it’s also
okay if we’re complaining, moaning, bitching and whining… Yep, those are all
fine. We’ve had plenty of guys tell us all about their success in those
‘states.’
They all had one thing
in common. They were all in ‘state’ – the state of being awake.
Totally unhappy,
totally dissatisfied, totally filled with intense boredom and despair. Yup.
None of those can prevent you from successfully approaching a girl, talking to
her, getting her number, and (if there is chemistry) living an incredibly
exciting life with her by your side.
While we don’t
recommend actively feeling the above, sometimes guys feel those things when
they’re awake. The good news is, you can meet the woman of your dreams in all
of those ‘states.’
The Secret Behind Getting Into ‘State’
The point we’re making
here is this:
‘Getting
in state’ as a useful concept for helping guys meet and get better with women
is absolutely worthless.
That’s right.
‘State’ is worthless.
The only possible
thing it can do is embody itself as just another excuse as to why NOT to go
talk to women.
Whiny Dude: “I’m not
in state, so I can’t go talk to her.”
Or,
Lame Pickup Artist:
I’ll start approaching girls later, first I gotta get in state.
We’ve even heard,
Frightened Freddie: I
don’t want to be in a bad state tonight, so I’m not gonna go out.
We were downright
shocked when we heard guys PREPLANNING to use their ‘state’ as an excuse to not
go talk to women. WTF?
How to Move Beyond Getting Into ‘State’
When
it comes to dating
advice for men who want the easiest path to success possible,
we like to say that the proof is in the pudding. And the guys we’ve seen
subscribing to and spreading the idea of ‘state’ being important end up using
it as just one more an excuse to justify not approaching women. It’s just one
more barrier between the guy and an easy dating life.
We’re seen more
whiners without balls trembling in fear among the believers of ‘state’ than any
other identifiable group of guys. The only conclusion we draw is that all the
rhetoric about ‘state’ is simply a malicious wormhole thought program designed
to paralyze guys into inaction (‘I can’t talk to her because I’m not in state
yet’). Obviously, this helps out the companies who sell solutions to getting
into ‘state’ since it’s a made-up solution to a made-up problem. But what if
you want an easy, fulfilling life with high quality women who really like you
regardless of whether ‘state’ is involved or not?
Our solution is easy:
pure, daily action on a massive scale regardless of, and in spite of, ‘bad
state.’ In fact, catching a cold is great reason to go talk to women. Having a
bad day is a great reason to go talk to women. Feeling ‘unmotivated’ is a great
reason to go talk to women. These ‘bad states’ are all opportunities to crush
the BS excuses that try to convince us not to take massive action on our
dating lives by getting up, getting out and meeting a potential woman of our
dreams every single day.
To recap, the only
‘state’ we’ve ever seen to have any affect on our ability to meet women is
whether we’re asleep or not. And if you’re reading this, that means you’re
awake, and thus ‘in state’ to go meet women. So get up, get out and go talk to
girls right now, regardless of what ‘state’ you think you’re in.
Be Amazing,
John Robie
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