Should I Date A Girl Who Isn’t Girlfriend Or Marriage Material?

июля 17, 2020

(Stick around, there really is a valuable point to be made from this wacky story. Promise.)

Let’s say we all know that raw fruits and vegetables are really ideal for us health-wise, and make us feel great besides.

But let’s also imagine that we’re starving in the middle of a desert with no apples, oranges, tomatoes, or carrots in sight.

In fact, the only thing available is a greasy burger from Mickey D’s.

Yeah, we know it’s not at all good for us, that it could negatively affect our digestion, our health.

But it’s there, it’s available, and we’re really, really hungry.

So we go for it and enjoy it as best we can.

We hope to get someplace soon where we can enjoy some healthy fare, but for now we’ve gotta deal with what we’ve got.

In much the same way, Cool Guys know that dating is really all about finding high-value women of exceptional beauty and accomplishment who have great attitudes and like us from the very start. Women like this make our lives feel like a dream come true.

But sometimes there are no girls like that in the immediate vicinity. They’re scarce, and we’re lonely, or at a party or club/bar and the pickings, while not exactly slim, are obviously not made up of anything (or anyone) we would ever seriously consider marriage (or even girlfriend) material.

We see some easy girls, some extra-average girls, some ‘ain’t shit’ girls.

Yeah, we know they come with all kinds of drama, issues (Daddy ones spring immediately to mind), addictions, and other baggage and scars that could make our lives a right mess if we get involved with them.

But they’re there, they’re available, and we’re really, really… uh, lonely.

So we go for it, and we enjoy them as best we can; making sure to keep our own emotions/feelings in check, lest we forget that we knew the score coming in and leave ourselves open to all kinds of sturm and drang that belongs more in a German opera than in our own lives.

And we then continue our search for a great girl who will bring more happiness into our lives.

Now most guys know that a steady diet of junk food will make a mess of your health, although they may not realize that a string of messed-up ladies isn’t all that good for themselves either.

Then again, some people don’t give a s**t about the potential health problems that come from a lousy diet and ‘just wanna do what dey wanna do’ and that is certainly their right.

Just as some guys believe they can make a life of going after sub-par girls and somehow be happy.

‘To each his own’ we like to say.

We always like to tell our guys that DateMasters are searching for The Best One(s) while happily meeting, dating (and yes, that means LOTS of fun sex!), and enjoying great times with hundreds, if not thousands, of them.

Keep that in mind the next time you look around for some nice fresh peaches and there are none to be found, but you spy some easy deep-fried pizza.