Body Language Signals Of (lack of) Attraction
We’ve all been there – wondering if a date is going well or not,
wishing we could read someone’s mind. Well, today I will change all that for
you! Nope, you still won’t be able to read mind (i’m working on that) BUT i can
help you on reading body languages on whether your date finds your interesting
and is attracted to you, or they’re secretly calling their friends to bail them
out with one of those moves they rehearsed for emergency bad dates. -winks.
Mirror Mirror On The Wall
See if she / he has the mirroring effect on you when having a meal with you.
This involves them subconsciously mirroring your moves, like simultaneously
raising a glass of water to your lips, or simultaneously playing with your
cutlery. It could be a whole range of things, but one thing for sure is that if
they mirror your moves, they definitely are attracted to you (although there’s
an outside chance they’re just attracted to your lovely marinated chicken..)
Are You Crossed Out? (Legs)
When sitting beside her, take notice whether her legs are crossed towards you
or away from you. The latter obviously a display of diminishing interest (note
: don’t get alarmed by this and start juggling chainsaws – although that would
be rather entertaining). In fact, take a moment to check yourself. Are you
talking about something of common interests? Are you talking all about yourself
and none of them? Take note of whatever topic that you could possibly change to
cater to their attention needs (:
Are You Crossed Out? (Hands)
When talking to your date, take notice of their hands. If they’re crossed out,
it means that she’s taking up a defensive stance against you, this could
probably be because you’re intruding too much into their personal space too
quickly. Instead of panicking in such shituations, use it to your advantage and back off a bit to let her
feel more comfortable, it’s crucial that you let them feel that you understand
them (although you might not, but that’s forgivable, since we hardly do).
No Juggling, No Tap Dancing
So,
all in all, look out for these 3 body signals on your date to tell if it’s
going well or heading for disaster and CRUCIALLY, alter your behavior according
to the situations. Like i said earlier, don’t resort to juggling chainsaws or
tap dancing (i never did any of this by the way, i’m serious!) when you find
her lacking of interest in any of your conversations, instead, take a quiet
moment and think about what the famous Ghandi once said – “Believe in yourself
son, you’re doing way better than me already!”
Cheers
and Godspeed people (:
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2 Simple Questions To Ask Your Loved One Today
The
following are 2 questions (not 3) you should
ask your loved one today (which could possibly lead to monumental quarrels), if
you don’t manage to make it through the first question, you can always spread
it out over the week, unless you’re a masochist and love quarrels of course (:
1.)
Where Is Our Relationship
Heading?
You probably would have seen this advice everywhere else, but i
can honestly say that you would have ignored it altogether and skipped to
question 2 below (which was equally bad -shrugs), you know why? Because i did
so myself, heh. “Where is our relationship heading?” is a question that
importance we dismiss quickly as deep down inside, we don’t really want to
know. We’d rather live in the moment and not worry about the future – something
i was equally guilty of at one point of time. Anyway, once you have this
question asked, and overcame the huge hurdle of discussions that would usually
ensue such questions, you’ll realize how much more confidence you would have in
your relationship, to know that it has a future and direction in it and you two
are working towards it. (:
2.)
What Does Your Parents Think Of
Me?
Yup,
bring in the parents! It’ll make a mountain of difference in your
relationship. This is not entirely about what each other’s
parents think about you two, but the act itself that signifies everything. A
relationship isn’t entirely serious yet unless it has been revealed to the
parents, as the mere act of telling each other’s parents about your
relationship is a huge step (and act) of confidence towards cementing it’s
seriousness and your faith in it. Ultimately (usually), the parent’s opinion
and blessing is what you want too, it may not come immediately but when it
does, it’s well worth the wait. There will be so much more freedom, direction
and confidence in the relationship. (:
I’ve
had friends who avoided telling their parents for two years and when things
finally got too serious and they wondered where the relationship was heading,
they told them -and their parents rejected strongly plus to top it off, both
families got into a war with each other and banned the two of them from seeing
each other, along with confiscating their phones and their laptops (didn’t stop
them completely though)-. Anyway, being family respecting people (as everyone
should really strive to be), they didn’t have much of a choice there. Now they
live their relationship in the shadows without any purposeful direction in it
-shakes head.
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