Dating Coach For Lovers

A reader named Scarlett wants to know about male fantasies. What do we think about? What makes for a fantasy girl? Read on to find out… What do men consider a “cool” girl? What qualities are the MOST important in the one they really want to be with long term? What do men consider a fantasy girl? Is it one and the same? Or is the fantasy girl just that - a fantasy? Dear Scarlett, You ask several good questions, and I’ll address them one at a time, because…well…I don’t have to explain that, do I? One at a time, that’s how you do things. WHAT DO MEN CONSIDER A “COOL” GIRL? https://www.russian-mates.com/the-working-cynical-guy-craigslist-copy-paste-coming-to-a-city-near-you/ https://www.communitywalk.com/map/list/2544687 http://sqworl.com/aemvsr https://www.plurk.com/p/ntnord https://lethbridge.instructure.com/eportfolios/897/_/Im_Not_The_Man_My_Wife_Wants__Can_I_Be_That_Man_Does_She_Really_Want_That_Man https://butler.instructure.com/eportfolios/621/_/My_Boyfrie...

Today’s question is about the strange male behavior that many folks saw on “The Bachelor” this season, where the guy kept telling his dump-ees such lovey things that it made you wonder, “Uh…so why are we breaking up, again?” And while it may be confusing to women, I can guarantee you that there was not ONE man watching that show who didn’t know exactly what was going on. Read on, ladies. Why do men after they have discarded a relationship with you and said they were no longer interested in pursuing anything further with you say something like: “I will always love you. I dream about you all the time. You will always be in my heart and mind”. These are the words my ex actually e-mailed me after the fact. If they STILL have such  STRONG feelings for you why are they no longer interested in being with you anymore? This has happened to me several times and I saw it happen on “The Bachelor” the other night. This time on “The Bachelor” it was a first, where the “bachelor” actual...

Hello, I am a few years your junior and I'm currently a first officer flying for a major European airline. This job has awarded me with certain financial benefits that help me maintain an above average lifestyle. In a few months time I shall be married to a woman for which my affection is too intricate to write down on paper. I am not happy. I do not know why. I cannot imagine what more I'd want. But when I wake up in the morning I cannot force a smile. It disgusts me especially because I know that god has blessed me in so many ways, deprived me of certain material and social problems. But I cannot be happy. Miss Wendy, how does one find happiness when one has the building blocks but not the knowledge to put them together? Yours, Parsisian Pilot Dear Parisian Pilot, There were a few of things that really struck me about your letter. The first is your reference to your "above average lifestyle" followed two lines later by your confession that you are...

Welcome back, manslatees. It’s Monday, and that means it’s time to start your manslators . We kick off the week with a question from frequent commenter, Sian, who, through some tactical Googlestalking ( of which I wholeheartedly approve, by the by ) that her potential internet date was ALSO looking for…shall we say, “wilder” stuff on a different dating site . What should she do? Read on to find out: Jeff, my internet dating dilemmas are continuing (aarghh) and I am not sure how to handle this current predicament or if I should just be giving it the old wide berth yet again (sigh). I am corresponding with a cute guy on a reputable sight that is geared for dating and serious relationships. He is handsome, intelligent…writes well ( ok, not as well as you ) great to talk to on the phone, and I am meeting him this week for the first time . His profile states he is after a long term commitment with one woman. Now fast forward to me checking another dating site that is into thing...

Our manslatee of the day is Veronica, who has a question about when it’s time for she and her man-about-town to become exclusive. She writes: How long should I date a guy before it’s reasonable to expect to start seeing him exclusively? I’ve been dating a guy for a couple of months and things have been fantastic – great chemistry from the first date, great dates, amazing sex. He introduced me to his friends a few weeks ago and they said that I should keep doing what I’m doing because he keeps talking about how much fun he has with me, etc. But he’s still dating other women, and I’m getting annoyed (starting to feel like a booty call). Should I read between the lines and kick him to the curb? Dear Veronica, How long until you can reasonably expect that you’re exclusive? 100% up to you — it’s whenever YOU expect it to be. And 100% up to him as well. Simple right? Let me add those figures up and–uh-oh! I know I haven’t taken math since roughly 1987 ( and even then I wasn...

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I met The Foreigner at Holly’s, a.k.a “Santa Monica beach girls & boys gone wild”, when The Foreigner (Bri’ish, to be exact) in front of me asks me to dance with him. I agreed only because he had been cracking me up dancing like a crazy fool for the last 5 minutes. This guy was NOT afraid of embarrassing himself. I even let him get away with the common and obviously trying to get laid “It’s my birthday tonight!” line. Just as an aside, does that really work for guys? Do girls really give it up thinking, “Well hey, it IS his birthday after all. Let me give him a little something. Wouldn’t want him to have a bad birthday.” But I digress. Back to the matter at hand. We dance for a little while longer, then I go to the bathroom, where my roommate tells me to “Talk to him more! Act like you like him.” Apparently I had been too aloof. But my roommate is a genius in matters of the dating nature, so I listen to her. When we got back though, he was nowhere to be seen. Fifteen m...