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He Just Needs Time…to Date 20 Year Olds

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Sue’s gotten into it with a guy who’s just gotten OUT of it, it seems. He was married for 17 years, and split up a year ago. After 2 or 3 months dating Sue, our boy here has decided he is “scared of relationships” and the only way to get over it is to date women who are 20 years younger than he is. Poor guy, huh? http://www.i-m.mx/abrikos/Craigslist/page-1.html https://jobs.citylimits.org/employers/428781-okcupid https://euro-math-soc.eu/users/locanto https://www.theloop.com.au/project/okcupid/portfolio/why-is-he-so-sweet-to-his-friend/386683 http://www.divephotoguide.com/user/okcupid http://perchcemthoback.yooco.de/events/event.523043-craigslist_dating_on_again_off_again_and_then_again.html https://ioby.org/users/slayalicantov386514 http://wiseintro.co/ mysite9742666 http://prlog.ru/backlink/loveawake.com https://cgscholar.com/community/profiles/alla-smokie/updates/83272 https://gmauthority.com/blog/users/okcupid http://citi.uabc.mx/web/okcupid/home/-/blo...

Female Mice Given a “Male” Sex Drive Through Creative Brain Surgery

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Scientists announced  this experiment , in which female mice had some little thingie in their brains disabled ( perfectly safe, I’m sure ) and the female mice went sexually apeshit * . The females then exhibited “male” behaviors — mounting them, asking for their numbers, saying things like, “Baby, are your legs tired? Because you were scurrying through my dreams all  night !” The horror. The horror. Forget the meteor, global warming, nuclear war. This could be it. The end of industry, society, civilization. If women suddenly became as available for sex as men  wish  they were, we’d all be dead in a month. An awesome, awesome month. https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/life/ten-douchey-things-women-actually-like https://www.hsf.net/web/freedater/home/-/blogs/what-do-guys-think-after-all-that-flirting-on-craigslist-? https://www.gapyear.com/members/freedater/ https://www.charitychoice.co.uk/fundraiser/jeenadavis http://www.myfolio.com/art/ys25odl5ik Omaha...

Apologize For Intensity

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I can’t believe there’s another Shelby in the house!! Jeff is right; it sounds like the guy felt something strong and then realized what he’d said/done. Personally, I would never tell a guy my feelings before HE told me, first, if it were the “L word.” If it were me, I’d let him know where I stand (my feelings) so far as everything, save using the word LOVE. If he has feelings headig in that direction, he will let you know. The way a man acts speaks volumes. Dears: I was goiing to skip commenting, but there’s something generic2say. We humans want to receive honesty and we want to be not-the-first to give honesty. We want to receive words of love and we want to be not-the-first to give words of love. Let’s keep it simple: when we love, let’s speak of it–give witness to it. Whether word of love is returned from another doesn’t make the word of love OR the “love” disappear. Yes! It’s okay ultimately to rely on love of “love” because ultimately, our ’selves’ need to know and to have a...

When He Says “I Don’t Know What I Want From You”

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Well hello there, manslatees. We start the week with a 3 month relationship in which the guy has told her that he “doesn’t know what he wants from her” and also he told her he loved her…but then apologized for getting “a little intense back there.” ( For the purpose of this manslation, I’m going to assume that the “back there” part was in relation to WHEN it was said, and not WHERE, but hey, what do I know? I’m from Connecticut. ) So what’s up with this guy? Read on to find out: Jeff, I’ve been seeing this guy for 3 months. We’ve never discussed forming a relationship, but that seems to be what’s happening. When I ask him what he wants from me, he says he just doesn’t know. For a man to not know what he wants from a woman is a strange thing! I would be okay with anything he said. Sex Buddy, Companion, Friend, whatever, so long as it’s a response. I’m trying to figure out what “I don’t know what I want from you” translates into. Am I wasting my time while he’s trying to fig...

So Over You

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Some of it has to do with how serious the intentions of the online dater are, but this you should be able to spot from their profile and the effort they put in to talk to you. For example if someone on Eharmony does not handpick at least one of the three questions or just does the click on multiple choice answers they are either using their preselected windows saved text box fill in from last time or they are just not all that interested in YOU. So I do agree with Stacy here. You can pretty easily spot the new person, they might go on one or two online dates and give up if they have a bad experience… it may have nothing at all to do with you, perhaps their last two in person dates were TOTAL duds because they don’t know how to screen yet, so they have little tolerance for imperfection or will cancel for trivial reasons. https://1.shortstack.com/j6Zt4Q http://localendar.com/event?DAM=PublishedEvent&m=600262&event_id=2&calendar_id=600262&more_info=N&export_...

How Many Kids to Have?

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How many kids am I going to have? A typical question for many young families today. Since this is a mom and dad chat site, lets share a little of how each of us decide on the number of kids to have after we have committed ourselves in a relationship.  Right now, I have one son. When I married my husband, we did not talked about kids and stuff. It’s more of take it one day at a time sort of attitude. No family planning issues seriously discussed except perhaps, my husband’s general talk of wanting 3 kids, to which I said no. https://ed.ted.com/on/IYsXeSxU#digdeeper https://tree.taiga.io/project/halmer-selling-the-house-and-love/wiki/home http://www.progettokublai.net/progetti/calling-after-a-craiglist-date/ http://www.podcastgarden.com/episode/perils-of-craiglist-dating_154708 https://www.cosplayisland.co.uk/user/64041 https://www.worldranklist.com/preview/article/199318/3-Warning-Signs-of-a-Breakup-That-you-Must-Know https://www.worldranklist.com/preview/...

Do you Believe in Love at First Sight?

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Do you believe in love at first sight? If you search through love at first sight quotes, you will actually find that there are some which are very romantic while others are highly cynical. For example, Leonardo DiCaprio was quoted as saying, “Love at first sight? I absolutely believe in it! You’ve got to keep faith. Who doesn’t like the idea that you could see someone tomorrow and she could be the love of your life? It’s very romantic.” When I met my husband years ago, I think it was love at first sight for me. But I was hardly 20 then and haven’t seen much of the world to really know what I was getting myself into. I was just following my emotions blindly then, I would say, without giving it any thoughts about the type of person that he is and the difficulty of having a relationship with someone of a different nationality and the distance that would ensue. Anyway, I’m lucky that the relationship did work out and we are now married with a kid. http...

Not Being Frank

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Yesterday afternoon, my son was playing with his classmate. The classmate is known to be problematic at kindy with his refusal to do writing and other normal schoolwork in class. Even both his mother and grandmother complained to me that it is so difficult getting him to do his homework because he just doesn’t want to write. Furthermore, he doesn’t like to socialize with other kids his age unless led to do so by adults. Anyway, after a while of playing, the classmate suddenly exhibits a kind of uncontrollable behavior and started scratching at my son. It is actually a first time that I see a 4+ child does that. My own instinct is this is not normal behavior of an average kid. At 4, kids usually don’t bite and show aggressive behaviors anymore, although I may be wrong since I’m no expert. It is times like this that you wonder if you should open your mouth and tell the mother that her son requires professional evaluation by child experts. After all, you may be wrong and you may e...

Spoiling the Expatriates Mate

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Do you feel that you are spoiling your expatriate mate at times? Compared to the past, when people tend to have more children, expatriate mate  are rarely spoiled in the sense that they rarely got what they wanted and they were not as over-protected as expatriate mate s are nowadays. http://www.teampages.com/teams/1929841-Why-Expatriate-People-Marry-Locals--other--team-website/announcements/2171386-Why-Expatriates-People-Marry-Locals https://study.mdanderson.org/eportfolios/2406/Home/Compromises_in_a_Relationship_For_Expats https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Can-you-Get-your-Expatriate-Spouse-to-Change-5336126 https://www.notion.so/Expatriates-Arranged-Marriages-8b1fece89c6d47099b14d5a4e08dceb0 https://www.hercampus.com/author/dating-expatriates https://slides.com/freedating/deck-e42f53#/ https://www.artmajeur.com/en/slayalicantov/news/956069/expats-dating-advice-there-s-no-perfect-marriage https://works.bepress.com/sam-leas/2 https:/...

Asking Expatriates for a Date

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I think it takes a lot of nerves for a guy to ask a girl out, especially if the girl is someone that he really likes. I suppose the fear of rejection is always there and it is a risk that not all men want to take. After all, who likes to be rejected, right? https://gumroad.com/slavlove/p/typing-on-a-typewriter https://peace-and-love.teachable.com/blog/203424/expatriates-dating-game https://www.devote.se/datengratis/expatriates-and-personality-31339928 https://launchpad.net/~expatriates https://www.shopswell.com/winning-single-expatriates-over https://adsansar.com/why-marry-expatriates-divorce-stats/ https://www.woddal.com/read-blog/9346_monogamous-relationship-for-middle-east-expats.html https://peatix.com/group/7224886  https://www.authorea.com/users/300423/articles/434778-expat-dating-tips-living-together-before-marriage There is this friend that we have who is still single. He rarely goes out on dates but it is not because he isn’t interested. He is j...

Trusting your Traveling Spouse

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Recently, a friend of mine confided in me that her husband is now always traveling for work. He resigned from his old company a few months ago and his new job now requires him to travel often, maybe up to two weeks a month. So, she is worried that her husband may take the opportunity to cheat when away on business trips. https://sccsd.instructure.com/eportfolios/3472/Home/The_Start_of_Something_Good_ https://tlcampus.instructure.com/eportfolios/131/Home/One_Day_You_Will_Be_30Something https://www.business.com/advice/member/p/dirk-poslitski/ https://framagit.org/jamescooper/how-to-date-on-craigslist/-/commit/ba03fe71058ab59c237b2734e98d3152df0660cd https://vc.ru/u/467506-john-williams/112253-first-date-mistakes https://slides.com/freedating/deck https://www.artmajeur.com/en/slayalicantov/news/950945/boredom-in-a-craiglist-online-dating https://jobs.techdirt.com/employers/413925-craigslist-dating https://cheezburger.com/9454678016 https://works.bepress.com/sam-lea...